
Adultery?
One of the main things I’ve learned in reading and studying about Jesus is that He wanted us to go deeper, read between the lines, so to speak. With answers like Matt. 5:28, “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Verse 32, “But I tell you that any man who divorces his wife, except for the problem of sexual sin, is causing his wife to be guilty of adultery. And whoever marries a divorced woman is guilty of adultery.” Verse 37, “Say only yes if you mean yes, and no if you mean no. If you say more than yes or no, it is from the Evil One.” These were not the answers the person asking was looking for. They thought He was just gonna recite the word verbatim, but Christ went below the surface with His answers. This wasn’t some preacher interpreting God’s word; this was God telling us what He meant. Verses like these encouraged, motivated & challenged me to look at life differently across the board. Then one day at work I found myself in a convo about relationships & the thought I’m about to share came to me. I encourage you to think about, pray about, search the word and if the shoe fits … take it off!

To all of us out there with BFs, wifies, girl friends, you got a “man” that you “love” and he or she’s the best thing that’s ever happened to you until the next thing that happens to you: Think about this, if God made one man for every one woman and you are in a relationship, monogamous or otherwise, you’re giving yourself physically & yes even spiritually, you invest time, resources, emotions, secrets, pictures, etc … then you break up & move on to the next one. Some might say that this cycle helps you learn what to do & what not to, or that the sexual experience will help you on your wedding night. But, one, the Bible never mentions dating, just courting (look for yourself); two, you’re really practicing divorce; & three, you may be committing adultery.
“But we’re not married; it might be fornication but not adultery.” They’re both sin & sin is sin. Verily I say unto you, if you believe that God can see the past, present & future at the same time, isn’t that person somebody’s husband/wife? Just because you don’t know him/her yet, if you’re having sex with someone who is not your husband/wife, you’re having sex with someone else’s husband/wife. That is adultery!
The point is that a lot of people live in this cycle & the hope is that they walk out of it & on to the road that leads to Heaven. But Heaven is the end of the road; on the way, is the man or woman God created for you, the kids, the ministries & the process that will see you become a man or woman after God’s own heart. Matthew 6:33 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV), “What you should want most is God’s kingdom and doing what He wants you to do. Then He will give you all these other things you need.” I applied this just in time, all thanks to God, just before I met my wife. I only suggest what works for me & God doesn’t love me more than He loves you. So, if He will do it for me, He will do it for you!
By: Glen Jenkins